So after the post yesterday about all the NEW drama that has come into my life I decided to look at it this way.................
Thank goodness I walked away from the trainwreck that WAS my marriage and Thank goodness its NOT me! While I do feel bad for the ex-hubbys (still legally married) new gf. I have decided that this is NOT my problem and I will not let it bother me. Yup.... I am moving on...
But the first few hours after finding out I was shocked and dismayed. I mean the whole time that he and I were together (mind you we have been married 2 years, but we split up 6months into it!) he adamently swore that he wouldn't stand for having any more kids. And I ended up pregnant twice!!!! Unfortunantly suffering miscarriages both times. (that is another story. don't feel bad for me) I talked to his new gf yesterday. She informed me that neither one of them is working at all. He expects ME to pay for the whole divorce. And that she will be fine but that she is scared. I let her know that there are other options out there. She got kinda huffy and defensive (which is to be expected) And she wouldn't hear of any of it. So being as nice as I could be I got kinda mean with her and laid it on the line.
Our conversation kinda went as follows :
Me: How does Larry feel about you being prego?
Her : I guess he is happy about it
Me: You guess? You know he is going to do the same thing to you that he did to Kristina and me right?
Her : (in denial) Oh no he won't
Me : How are you going to support a child when you can't even take care of yourself with no job and no high school education?
Her : I have options out there that will help. And my family will be there for me
Me : Oh so you will go on welfare and just sit back while us hard working citizens pay for you to be a lazy ass?
Her : (no answer)
Me : I have to go. You are being so fucking stupid if you think that he is really going to be there for you when he isn't there for his other one!
Hangs up phone!
Sorry if that sounded harsh....but I just had to be honest with her!
But enough about that! I'm happy and he can't drag me down any longer!!! YAY!