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Thursday, November 13, 2008

Oh man..... CRAP

Ok.... ummm I had some weird news broken to me this morning. Woke up this morning... let the dogs out... Got online checked emails and decided to go to my myspace page and had some messages. One message I got did not make me a happy camper. But first maybe I should explain.

As most if not all of you know, I am gay. I am happy with Amy. But what most people don't know is I use to be with men. More importantly I married one. Still legally married actually. Yes I know... SHOCKER. We have been married for two years now. But been split up for a very very LONG time. I don't love him. I tolerate him becuz we are still legally married and that is the extent of it. What the news is.....

He has this girlfriend. I actually like this girlfriend. She is a sweetheart. When the soon to be ex-huby and I were together she was dating his best friend. Not sure how the soon to be ex hubby ended up with her.... but I know she can do sooooooo much better. I mean he has a kid he doesn't pay child support for as it is. He has NO job. He got fired for failing a drug test. He is literally going no where with his life. (I know... what the hell was I doing with him? Don't ask!) And I hate to see her wasting her life on him! But that isn't the SHOCKING news I woke up to. His new girlfriend and I chat on myspace. We keep in touch. So anyway.... You are probably wanting to know what the news is huh?????????????????

Well she informs me via email that she is PREGNANT!!!! Of course I had to read the message like 5 times before it registered! I was so shocked! I can't believe that she would waste her life with him let alone get PREGNANT! Well I emailed her back ASAP and told her how fucking stupid she is for getting pregnant and by him of all people! She is only 19! He is going to dump her ass. He did it to his first baby momma.

See the soon to be ex hubby is like this....... He doesn't mind having a girlfriend when it is winter out. He is weird like that. During the fall and winter seasons he likes to be settled down. But as soon as summer times hits he is gone. He runs around never comes home and is with a different girl every night. She really is going to end up raising this baby on her own. Of course I will be there for her no matter what. I mean actually this will be my step child since I am married to him still.

So that is my news for the day.. What a way to wake up right? It's not that I care who he is with... What I care about is this poor unborn child and his/her momma. She really is to young to be going thru this... and with him of all people!

Signing off,
Sabrae Carter
www.mygccandle.com/amystill

6 comments:

The Pink Chick said...

Poor girl! I hope everything works out for her. And poor you! What crazy news to get so early in the morning! I am so glad that you found someone that make you happy and that you enjoy being with! I hope your friend finds someone to make her happy too! Have a wonderful day!

Evil Twin's Wife said...

I had a sinking feeling where you were headed with that. I feel so bad for her. I'm glad she has such a good friend in you, though.

Vodka Mom said...

OMG! That is crazy. Are you going to legally dump his ass sometime soon?

I wish that girl all the best......

Warped Mind of Ron said...

Wow... that poor girl. Nineteen is so young to have a child even when a father is going to be present and accounted for. I will hope that she finds a way to make everything work for her that allows a happy and healthy life for her and the baby. As for the hubby he needs a good ass kicking. I can't stand people that aren't responsible for there actions and a baby is a pretty big action in my book.

The Mom said...

I would try to go back to sleep and wake up again. Maybe it was a nightmare.

Too bad she didn't talk to you sooner, and with that record, why is that so attractive to a single girl? Know what I mean...divorcing man with child from ANOTHER relationship...ooh pick me. NOT!

Sparkling Red said...

Woah. That is some craziness right there. 19 years old? Well of course she was attracted to him. 90% of girls don't have an ounce of sense at that age, especially when it comes to men.