I'm getting there

Something good in Everyday!

My goal

Just Do It Ladies

Eat the damn chocolate cake
Get your hair wet
Love someone
Dance in those muddy puddles
Tell someone off
Draw a picture with crayons like you are still 6 years old, then give it to someone who is very important to you
Take a nap
Go on vacation
Do a cartwheel
Make your own recipe
Dance like no one can see you
Paint each nail a different color
Take a bubble bath
Laugh at a corny joke
Get on that table and dance
Pick strawberries
Take a jog
Plant a garden
Make an ugly shirt and wear it all day long
Learn a new language
Write a song
Date someone you wouldn't usually go for
Make a scrapbook
Go on a picnic
Relax in the sun
Make your own home video
Kiss the un-kissed
Hug the un-hugged
Love the un-loved
And live your life to the fullest........
So at the end of the day............
You can honestly say that you have no regrets, no sorrows and no disappointments..

Our Lives begin.....

Our lives begin to end the day we
become silent about things that
matter.

As we grow up....we learn....

As we grow up, we learn that...
even the one person that wasn't
supposed to ever let us down,
probably will. You'll have your
heart broken and you'll break
others' hearts.
You'll fight with your best friend or maybe even
fall in love with them,
and you'll cry because time is flying by.
So............
take too many pictures,
laugh too much,
forgive freely,
and love like you've never been hurt.
Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no
second chances. you just have to
live life to the fullest, tell
someone what they mean to you
and tell someone off, speak out,
dance in the pouring rain, hold
someone's hand, comfort a
friend, fall asleep watching the
sun come up, stay up late, be a
flirt, and smile until your face hurts.
Don't be afraid to take chances or fall in love
and most of all, live in the moment
because every second you spend
angry or upset is a second of
happiness you can never get
back.

Hope is there to make you win

Do not give up and do not give in,

For hope is there to make you win.

Whether though trouble or through pain, 

The lesson should never be in vain.

Staring through the night, 

It might feel like you have lost sight.

But behold just a few moments more,

And light will break through with a roar.

Do not give up and do not give in,

For hope is there to make you win.

New Year's Resolution?

I really thought about making a resolution this year. I mean don't we all do it? Every year we say things like:
"This is the year I'll quit smoking"
"I'm going to volunteer more"
"Talk to friends and family more"
ETC ETC ETC.......

 But we never follow through with it.
New Year's resolutions are for the birds....

So this year my resolutions are simple.
I will continue being who I am. I'm a simple down home girl. I'll love my husband everyday, like I did in 2011. And I'll continue to be blessed with the most amazing family ever. If anything changes in my life, it won't be because of some resolution I made tonight. It will be because it was supposed to happen. :) I hope you all had an amazing New Years Eve! And I hope 2012 is the best one ever for you all!

Sabrae Culver

This is your life!

Why are things being loved?

People were created to be loved

Things were created to be used

The reason why the world is in chaos...

Because things are being loved

And people are being used!

The Impossible

Be Someone

Be someone who listens, and you will be heard.

Be someone who cares, and you will be loved.

Be someone who gives, and you will be blessed.

Be someone who comforts, and you will know peace.

Be someone who genuinely seeks to understand, and you will be wise.

Be someone who is kind and considerate, and you will be admired.

Be someone who values truth, and you will be respected.

Be someone who takes action, and you will move life forward.

Be someone who lifts others higher, and your life will be rich.

Be someone filled with gratitude, and there will be no end to the things for which you'll be thankful.

Be someone who lives with joy, with purpose, as your own light brightly shines.

Be, in every moment, the special someone you are truly meant to be.

He's Not Perfect

He's not perfect. You aren't either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least one, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn't going to quote poetry, he's not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don't hurt him, don't change him, and don't expect more than he can give. Don't analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he's not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don't exist, but there's always one guy that is perfect for you.
~Bob Marley

Always

It's all you need!

Highly charged emotions.

Under certain circumstances, you may need to take steps to counteract someone else's wrong-doing, but it's always to do so without anger in your heart.

This will make your response more effective, because when you mind is overwhelmed by a disturbing and highly charged emotion like anger, the action you take will not be appropriate, or a reflection of your true self.

Because we just need to be reminded sometimes.....

Someday.....

I dare you....

I dare you to let me be yours, your one and only
I Promise I'm worthy to hold in your arms
So come on and give me the chance
To prove that I'm the one who can
Walk that mile until the end starts
...
I've been on your mind
You hang on every word I say, lose yourself in time
At the mention of my name,
Will I ever know how it feels to hold you close?
And have you tell me whichever road I choose you'll go

I don't know why I'm scared 'cause I've been here before
Every feeling every word, I've imagined it all,
You never know if you never tried
To forgive your past and simply be mine

Change isn't easy!

Change in life isn't always easy. I've made changes in my life. We all have. But relocation to a different state is scary. For 25 years Ohio was all I ever knew. My friends and family were there. It's where I grew up, went to high school, had a child, joined the military, and went to college. My first marriage, my life was Ohio. But things happened. And Ohio became a place I "use" to live. The first major state move was when I came to Georgia, hard to believe that was almost 3 years ago! The only people I knew were my mom and pop and sisters. The first few months I was here I didn't venture out. I knew no one. I was scared. But, against all odds, I made the leap and got a job at Waffle House. I began making aquantiences and forming friendships. I met my second husband here and started a life. I was comfortable. Life was great. I didn't want for anything. My life was truly my own for the first time in a while. But again life decided it was time for another change. And fate also intervened on my behalf. Things were not going smoothly in my second marriage. I was on the verge of leaving and starting over on my own when I met Jesse. Jesse is now my husband. ( and if you've been keeping track he's #3) I've since divorced my second husband and married Jesse. He truly is my one and only soulmate. I've lived him from the moment I looked into his eyes. And that brings me to my next major change in life. (and for the record, no I am not pregnant!) I'm making another move across state lines! In about 2 weeks we will be moving to Alabama. And yet again I will be starting over. Going to a town where he knows everyone and I know no one. And I haven't mentioned it to him, but I'm terrified. I'm 28 and I don't want to start over again. I will do it for him. I will do it because I know moving back close to his family is something he truly wants to do. But it's going to be hard!